Department of Family Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-7500 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
Michael A. Becketts
Director

Outreach and Education Services

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community and education outreach class participants and facilitatorThe Department of Family Services' Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) is committed to raising awareness throughout Fairfax County about domestic violence, sexual violence, stalking and human trafficking.

Learn more about the services our outreach staff and educators provide; request for us to provide a presentation or training and learn about the available topics; or check out the upcoming trainings and sign-up to participate.

DSVS outreach staff and educators provide informational presentations and trainings to various groups, including:

  • community organizations and civic groups.
  • schools and universities.
  • companies and human resources professionals.
  • faith-based groups.
  • health care providers.
  • law enforcement and legal personnel.
  • non-profit partners.

DSVS outreach staff is also available to provide technical assistance and guidance in policy development about domestic violence, sexual violence, stalking and human trafficking for your community group, organization or business. Learn more by contacting Abby Picard, prevention and education coordinator, by email or phone: 703-324-4311.

Our Community Engagement Services team staffs resource tables at various events, including school fairs, health fairs, public safety events, community festivals, and more.

If you're interested in having us conduct a presentation or training, please complete the online request form (at least three weeks prior to the event date). A member of the outreach staff will contact you. If you have not heard from staff within three (3) business days, please contact Angie Acosta.

DSVS' mission is to work with communities to transform society’s response to domestic violence, sexual violence, human trafficking and stalking by challenging oppression, collaborating to inform policy and providing all persons impacted by violence with equitable access to trauma-informed support, advocacy, education and a space for healing. We strive to fulfill requests that fall within the scope of our mission.


Staff are available to present on the following topics.

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Interface: Learn about the Adverse Childhood Experiences study and the way ACEs can change our brains as we grow and develop. The impact of ACEs on physical and emotional health will be explored, as well as the connection between domestic violence and the other forms of ACEs. Participants will gain an understanding of how they can contribute to creating healing and resiliency in their communities.

Child Witness to Domestic Violence: Learn about the effects of witnessing domestic violence across the lifespan; its impact on children’s brain development; and implications for cognitive, emotional, and physical development. Through group discussions and video, participants will understand the needs of children and how to support them.

Domestic and Sexual Violence Services Programs and Services: Learn about the division’s approach to domestic and sexual violence services and the partnerships, programs, and services available to people and families experiencing interpersonal violence in Fairfax County.

Domestic Violence 101: Learn the dynamics of domestic violence, how to recognize the ways violence can manifest, barriers to leaving abusive relationships, and how to support someone in a violent relationship.

Human Trafficking 101: Learn how human trafficking is defined, how to support survivors, and the intersection of trafficking with other forms of sexual and domestic violence. This training also discusses available resources to address the unique needs and barriers faced by people impacted by human trafficking in Fairfax County.

Parenting through Domestic Violence: This training is for professionals serving children and families who are affected by domestic violence.  Participants will gain an understanding of the ways in which domestic violence influences family dynamics while couples are together and as they separate. Special attention will be paid to the manner in which a child’s attachment to each parent is impacted and the dilemma and challenges children face in developing relationships with both the survivor and offender parent.

Stalking 101: Get a basic overview of stalking, focusing on the definition, recognizing the contextual nature of this crime, and providing strategies for participants to get involved in building awareness and supporting victims and survivors. This curriculum was developed by the Stalking Prevention, Awareness and Resource Center (SPARC).

Supporting Parents and Children Experiencing Domestic Violence: This training is for professionals who serve children and families affected domestic violence. Participants will learn about the trauma of domestic violence, how it impacts brain function and development, and the ways in which the trauma might manifest in children’s behavior. Participants will gain tools to talk to parents about how domestic violence impacts children’s development and how to address children’s behavior using a trauma informed approach. 

Talking with Children about Consent: Learn how to help children and adolescents understand and communicate about consent. Topics covered include age-appropriate ways to talk to children about practicing consent, respecting others, and how to ask for help.

Teen Dating Violence 101: Learn the dynamics of teen dating violence and how to help young people experiencing it. This workshop can be provided for teens, parents and caregivers, or youth-serving professionals. 

The HYPE (Healthy Youth Prevention Education) Project: Learn from this youth-focused, 8-session curriculum that teaches participants about intimate partner violence and sexual assault prevention. Through hands-on activities, multimedia, role-play exercises and facilitated discussions; teens will have opportunities to examine various elements of relationships and develop skills to identify and replicate healthy dynamics in interpersonal interactions. Topics are also available as standalone workshops; the topics are the following:

  • Teen Dating Violence 101
  • Why Do People Stay
  • Bystander Intervention
  • Healthy Sexuality and Sexual Assault
  • Gender 101
  • Masculinity and Femininity
  • Values
  • Self-esteem and Jealousy
  • Communication

Understanding Sexual Violence: Learn how to define and identify sexual violence in different forms and understand key concepts, including consent, coercion, trauma, and victim blaming. The training also discusses how individuals can support people who have experienced sexual violence and what services are available to them and their loved ones in Fairfax County.

Unpacking Gender: Learn about and explore the messages we are taught about gender and how they can affect our relationships with ourselves, loved ones, and our community. Participants in this training will talk about the impact gender roles and stereotypes have on everyone and how this knowledge can help prevent sexual and domestic violence.

Tier One DV Training July 2024Domestic Violence Tier One 

Wednesday and Thursday, July 10 and 11, 2024
8 a.m.-5 p.m.
Fairfax County Government Center
12000 Government Center Pkwy
Conference Room 9/10
Fairfax, VA 22035

Domestic Violence Tier One is a two-day training on the dynamics of domestic violence, systems responding to domestic violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community. This training is for professionals, volunteers, and community members looking to learn about the dynamics of domestic violence and its impact on individuals, families, and communities. It is free, but registration is required. For more information, contact Abby Picard.


Online Safety Training

Tech/Online Safety for Teens
Tuesday, July 23, 2024
2 p.m.

Via Zoom and in person
Trust, respect, and safety are important to master healthy relationships online and on social media. Hear from an expert on digital safety who will break down important topics like cyberbullying, how people behave online vs. offline, and what it means to be safe on social media and devices. Come ready with questions! Workshop offered Light refreshments will be served at in-person locations. Simultaneous Spanish interpretation will be provided. Contact Debra Miller or Nora Nieto for more information. 


Tech/Online Safety for Youth-Serving Professionals

Wednesday, July 31, 2024
2 p.m.

Virtual via Zoom
Do the teens you work with come to you with questions about social media and dating online? Do you struggle to keep up with the latest changes in technology and how they impact your youth or client’s safety? Domestic and Sexual Violence Services is pleased to invite you to a training that will equip you with the knowledge and tools to recognize, prevent, and address tech-enabled abuse among teens. Hear from an expert on digital violence and ways to approach this topic with kids. Simultaneous Spanish interpretation will be provided. Contact Debra Miller or Nora Nieto for more information.


Tech/Online Safety for Parents/Caregivers

Thursday, Aug. 8, 2024
6:30 p.m.

Via Zoom and in person
Do you feel a disconnect between you and your children when it comes to technology? Do you worry about helping your teen safely navigate the digital world? Hear from an expert on digital violence who helps frustrated parents learn about simple tips to parent effectively in the digital age, preparing their kids to be safer online. Light refreshments will be served at in-person locations. Simultaneous Spanish interpretation will be provided. Contact Debra Miller or Nora Nieto for more information.


Unpacking Gender: How to Talk to Kids and Teens

Tuesday, Aug. 6, 2024
3-4:30 p.m.

Sherwood Regional Library
2501 Sherwood Hall Lane
Alexandria, VA 22306

In this workshop, participants will explore the messages we are taught about gender and how they can affect our relationships with ourselves, loved ones, and community. We will discuss the impact gender roles and stereotypes have on everyone and how this knowledge can help us prevent violence. This workshop is aimed at grandparents and older adult caregivers to children, teens, and young adults interested in learning how to talk about gender with young people in their life. Parents and youth serving professionals also welcome. Questions? Contact Zayne Reeves.


Request a training for your organization. 

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