Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Keesha Coke
Interim Director

October Is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

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Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Domestic violence is a family, community and public health issue with widespread ripple effects that impact all parts of our community. It will take all of us to build a peaceful and safe Fairfax County.

Did you know?

  • 1 in 4 women and nearly 1 in 10 men will experience sexual violence, physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner during their lives.
  • More than 43 million women and 38 million men will experience psychological aggression by an intimate partner in their lifetime.

Research also shows survivors of domestic violence have significantly higher rates of long-term health problems, including diabetes, frequent headaches, chronic pain, difficulty sleeping, asthma, depression and post-traumatic stress disorder.

We can prevent domestic violence across our community by addressing the root causes of the problem. We can eliminate attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, environments and policies that contribute to domestic violence and promote strategies that stop it. Together, we can reduce our acceptance and tolerance of violence, and reject norms, practices and policies that place girls and women at increased risk. We can confront gender and racial injustices.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Learn about county activities and resources honoring the month and check out our community engagement toolkit for ways you can share the message!


Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence Podcast

UnscriptedLydia Gurguis, advocacy services manager with Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, and Colleen Armstrong, a DSVS on-call crisis line specialist, talk about the history and importance of Domestic Violence Awareness Month.


2024 DVAM Proclamation

Tuesday, October 8: Domestic Violence Awareness Month Proclamation

Government Center Board Auditorium
Fairfax County Government Center
12000 Government Center Parkway
Fairfax, VA 22035
9:30 a.m.

The Board of Supervisors proclaimed October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month! Second Story accepted the Proclamation as family, friends, and colleagues joined the recognition.


Friday, Oct. 11: National Coming Out Day

Department of Family Services logoNational Coming Out Day is dedicated to honoring the bravery of LGBTQIA+ individuals who decide to come out and live openly. Coming out is often the first step toward living authentically. Take time to support and help those in your life who have chosen to come out, and check the Human Rights Campaign's Coming Out Resources Center for information about living openly.


Friday, Oct. 11: Domestic and Sexual Violence Community Annual Meeting

Until Everyone is SafeFairfax County Government Center
12000 Government Center Parkway
Fairfax, VA 22035

8:15-11:30 a.m.

Join the Council to End Domestic Violence, the Domestic Violence Network, the Sexual Assault Response Team, and the Fairfax County interpersonal violence community as they celebrate the milestones met over the past year and recommit to continuing the work until everyone is safe. Featured events include a networking breakfast, an art therapy project, and the domestic and sexual violence Community Awards.


Saturday, Oct. 12: Annual K-9 Krawl

Annual K-9 KrawlPublic Safety Headquarters
12099 Government Center Parkway
Fairfax, VA 22035 

9-11 a.m. (check-in begins at 8:30 a.m.)

Lace up your sneakers and bring your four-legged family for this unique opportunity for dog lovers to come together to observe Domestic Violence Awareness Month and bring awareness to the connection between domestic violence and animal cruelty. Registration suggested.


Thursday, Oct. 17: Purple Out! – Fairfax County Turned Purple

Friday, Oct. 17: Purple Out!Fairfax County turned out to support survivors of domestic violence by wearing purple on Thursday, Oct. 17, 2024. See all the royal finery in the slideshow below. It’s not too late to be part of the picture parade. Send photos to Angie Acosta.


Thursday, October 17: Driving Change to End Domestic Violence

Driving Change to End Domestic ViolenceBull Run Golf Course
15000 Bull Run Estates Drive
Haymarket, VA 

11 a.m.

Join Shelter House for their first Driving Change to End Domestic Violence Golf Tournament. Golfers will enjoy a beautiful day on the green and a post-tournament dinner with exciting prizes, all while supporting their cause! This is a ticketed event with proceeds going to Shelter House.


Saturday, October 26: 4th Annual Toiletry Drive

Saturday, October 26: 4th Annual Toiletry DriveMount Vernon Woods Elementary School
4015 Fielding Street
Alexandria, VA

10 a.m.-Noon

Join the brothers and sisters of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc., and Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc., as they partner with Shelter House and the Domestic Violence Action Center for the 4th Annual Domestic Violence Toiletry Drive. 

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